Worksheets Now Available!

I have so enjoyed teaching and utilizing some of these tools all over the world for over a decade now.

Now, for all my therapist/missionary care/pastoral counselor friends out there, as well as anyone else who might find handouts useful…

I’m excited to start offering them in a more professional manner.

Now available:
The Shapes Diagram
The Triangle
The Stoplight Tool

The Stoplight Tool is available for $2.99 here. You can read more about it here.

The Shapes Diagram and The Triangle are available for $4.99 here. Read more about them here.

These resources are NOT a substitute for professional mental health help or treatment. If you are experiencing a mental health challenge or crisis, it is crucial to seek medical help and/or advice from a licensed mental health professional who can provide personalized guidance and support.

The Client {a poem}

The client,

Courageous,

Opens the room, not knowing what lies beyond, trusting that hope is somewhere in the darkness.

In session, the client sometimes knows where he’s going and goes there striding. In session, the client sometimes discovers where she’s been and falls to her knees.

Other times, the tears just fall and the Kleenex box empties and the minutes run out. Next week is obscenely far away.

The client,

A person with a story,

Desperate

Longs for relief of long buried pain or grief or silence. Who will bear witness? Who will see this?

Unbearable history, yet borne.

Unspeakable pain, yet screamed.

Unwitnessed trauma, yet seen by many.

The client,

Resolute

Slowly turns into the pain and finds a heart filled with compassion and curiosity and kindness. There is mercy here, and light.

There is a future.

The client,

Courageous,

Opens the room.

When Counseling Missionaries, Please Remember these Six Things

I’m so excited that Remnant Counselor Collective launches today and includes an article of mine aimed at helping counselors care for missionaries. It’s about the six things a counselor should remember when counseling missionaries:

1. Don’t try to keep them on the field or get them off the field

2. Remember, they’re people too

3. Get comfortable with grief, because there’s probably a lot of it

4. Be careful with spirituality

5. Always assess for trauma and secondary trauma

6. Remember the basics

Read the full article here: https://www.remnantcounselorcollective.com/…/when.

— Jonathan T.

Book Sale: Digging in the Dirt is $2.99 through Wednesday!

Hey there! I am thrilled to let you know that “Digging in the Dirt: Musings on Missions, Emotions, and Life in the Mud” is ON SALE FOR $2.99 UNTIL WEDNESDAY NIGHT!

https://amzn.to/3SOtnqd (affiliate link)

I put so much of my heart and soul into this book, diving into topics like anger, grief, hope, sex, what to do when the power goes out, what to do when the thief steals, and so much more. Here is the invitation from the back cover:

Welcome to ground level, to the dirt and the mess.

We like the mountain tops and the sunshine. We like green grass under a clear blue sky. We like victory and breakthrough and answered prayers. But sometimes it rains, the shadows deepen, and life turns muddy. Sometimes God seems quiet. What then? What happens when depression descends, or anxiety hangs like a sword overhead? What happens when loneliness suffocates, the thief steals more than stuff, and you get blood on your shoes?

In Digging in the Dirt, Jonathan Trotter delves into the disasters, the darkness, and the deluge, and he offers comfort, presence, and a gentle invitation to hope.

With humor and prose, with poetry and Top Ten lists, Jonathan welcomes us to the dirt, to the places where we actually live. He invites us to boldly see life as it is, with eyes wide open, and reminds us that even when the digging is scary, we are never alone.

To the ones who are dealing with devastation and distress, welcome. To the ones who need to uproot, to pull out, to clear ground, welcome. To the ones who seek desperately to plant seeds of grace and hope in once barren soil, welcome. To the missionary abroad and the believer at home, welcome. Receive the invitation, and join with Jonathan here at ground level, together.

Come, dig in the dirt.

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A New Podcast: Digging in the Dirt, with Jonathan Trotter

Listen to the Digging in the Dirt podcast on Apple Podcasts and Spotify!

Here are the show notes from Episode 1:

Welcome to the inaugural episode of the Digging in the Dirt Podcast! I’m so glad you’re here! I will aim to keep this short, simple, and from the heart. Over time, I plan to read through my entire book, Digging in the Dirt. Think of it as a sort of free audio book! And in addition to the readings, each episode will feature discussions around listener-submitted questions.

So, where would you like to begin? You can submit your ideas, comments, and questions for future episodes here.

Listen to Episode 1 on on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or right here.

Thanks for stopping by, and have a great day!

~ Jonathan T.

www.seeingtheheartsofthehurting.com

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Resources Mentioned

Necessary Endings, by Henry Cloud

Digging in the Dirt, by Jonathan Trotter

I Walked On the Moon, by Brian Regan (YouTube comedy special)

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